National Boss’s Day went by this week without much fan fair in my office. In fact, I didn't actually realize it was National Boss’s Day until I read "10 Signs That You're an Uninspiring Boss" in BusinessWeek. In the article, Sir Richard Branson is quoted as saying, "Praise people and they will flourish. Criticize and they will shrivel up." This got me thinking not only about how I inspire my own employees, but also about the bosses in my past that inspired me.
I am a recovering CPA and I started my career at Arthur Andersen, LLP. Thinking back to those times, if Branson is correct, then I'd be prune juice by now. When I was a green tax consultant, the HR director gave me the career making opportunity of working under one of the most respected - and toughest - managers in the entire organization. Eager as I was, I couldn't wait to get started and didn't have to wait long before being called into her office. She had an assignment for me and was ready to provide the details, when she stopped and said, "Do you want to grab a notebook and write this down?" I said, "No, I can remember all of this." Of course, somewhere between her office and my desk, I completely forgot every word she said after ". . .write this down."
I had no choice but to call her back and admit I forgot everything she said. It was an honest rookie mistake but, to put it mildly, I was not "praised." In fact, she kicked me right out of her office, fuming. It took the kind of groveling that requires kneepads to get back into her office (and a lot of help from HR). From that day on I worked extra hard, made sure I dotted all my i’s and kept my notebook very close.
So I wonder, if that accounting manager never made me feel two inches tall, would I have developed the kind of work ethic and stick-to-it-ness to start my own business years later? If she didn't hold me to such a high standard from day one and if she hadn't criticized me, would I still be crunching numbers in a cubical today?
I've got a new task to address first thing Monday morning. I've got some promising employees that deserve a lot better than to feel too good about themselves.